The time has come for letting go.
By Brett Ryback (Actor-Writer)

Parents and children are a recurring theme in my work. I find this an effective theme because whether or not we have children, we all have parents.
But one aspect of the parent/child relationship that I have a good deal of experience with is the "letting go" part. And while there's interesting exploration to be done on the "child" side of letting go, I am currently on the parenting side. In this case, the children are my pieces of art - The Tavern Keeper's Daughter and Darling, which are playing next week in Milwaukee and Boston, respectively.
All right, all right - maybe I didn't go through a physically painful labor, and raise them for the last 18 years - but I have spent countless, intimate hours with these pieces. I know them inside and out. I have fought for them, learned from them, been frustrated and confused by them, and I have protected and loved them the way any good parent would.
And now they go out into the big scary world to be judged. There can be no mistake - this is the most exciting and frightening part of the process for any creator.
In Genesis, God made the world, and at each step along the way stood back and said "I did good!" Fortunately for God, Ben Brantley hadn't been born yet.
But here's the bigger lesson. You cannot control what others will think. People will have every opinion under the sun and those opinions will directly conflict with one another. I don't just mean when it comes to your work - I mean ev-er-y-thing.
So, why worry about what you can't control? All you can do, is stand up and say, "This is who I am," and let others decide.
What's the lyric?
Stop worry if your vision is new.
Let others make that decision - they usually do.
You keep moving on.
And so I will. As these pieces continue to find their feet, I'm off to bigger and better things.
After all - it's not like they're gone forever. They're gonna have to come back to do laundry eventually.
BRETT RYBACK wrote the music for Liberty Inn (Ovation Nominee, Best Music/Lyrics), the book music and lyrics for The Tavern Keeper’s Daughter, and the book for Darling. He also acts on stage and TV. www.btryback.wordpress.com
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